Criticism on UW Cowboys pick-up lines borders censorship

Dear Editor(s) of the Branding Iron,

Please accept and publish the below as a reasonable and comprehensive response to Geoff Hiatt’s submissions.
The voicing of this, or a similar, point of view is necessary to ensure a certain squeaky wheel doesn’t get an unjust serving of grease at the cost of all our reputations.

“Anti-Too Long; Didn’t Read” summary:
A: Jokes don’t cause sane people to view rape less seriously.
B: Jokes are not advocations.
C: Hiatt’s accusations are probably libelous.
D: People are not responsible for other people’s unforced actions.
E: The form of Hiatt’s letters is appropriate; the content is not.
F: An apology is acceptable; censorship is not.

It was just a joke
Jokes aren’t meant to be taken seriously; why are you taking it seriously? Because you think other people will take rape less seriously if a college footballer tells a joke about it. Why do you think that? Why would a sane person take rape less seriously because of a college footballer’s joke? Do we have any evidence that sane people take rape less seriously because of jokes? I don’t take rape less seriously because of jokes. You don’t take rape less seriously because of jokes. None of the people I’ve seen in any of these threads take rape less seriously because of jokes. No one I’ve ever met in my entire life (even the insane people) seemed like the kind of person that would take rape less seriously because of jokes. Why are you afraid of this? What reasons do you have for believing this? Are they good reasons? Are they based on objective observations of sane people taking rape less seriously because of rape jokes? They can’t be, because such observations don’t exist. No sane person in the Laramie community has decided to take rape less seriously because of this joke.

It’s just a line form a movie
Again you respond with “People will take this less seriously if people joke about it (paraphrased)”. Again, I ask why you fear this consequence.

He didn’t say anything about rape; you are putting words in his mouth
You’re right, he clearly joked about rape. The part where you put words in his mouth is not when you accuse him of making a joke about rape; it’s when you say he advocated rape. Now, joking about rape and advocating rape are different things. You are a reasonable adult. You should know the difference. In fact, I would feel comfortable asserting you do know the difference. However, I don’t understand why you deny the difference and assert that they are identical. If it is because you fear that sane people frequently make a similar mistake and take jokes as advocations, then I am happy to inform you that your fears are unfounded—you can relax. A sane person would never do this, because telling the difference between jokes and advocations is actually a requirement for sanity. Also, because jokes and advocations are definitively not the same thing, asserting that someone advocated rape when they actually joked about it is libelous. It really, really is. I really think the college footballer could bring criminal charges against you and you would be convicted. Also, you set up this reaction as a straw-man argument. You misrepresented your opponent’s position. That’s bad because it lends illegitimate credence to your own argument, which it does not deserve. Which is bad because your position seems to be one of illogical fear, and convincing people to hold a position because of illogical fear is wrong. It is especially wrong when that position seems to advocate censorship. If you don’t think censorship is inherently wrong, you’re weird, but entitled to your position and you’re entitled to talk about it.

Why are you picking on a player instead of addressing the real problems, like irresponsible drinking?
This reaction in itself is just plain bad. It’s not worth defending. However, it prompted you to respond with some very important arguments of your own, primarily that “no one is responsible for rape except rapists (paraphrased).” I agree with you. In fact, I agree with you so entirely that I take a step further and assert that no one is responsible for the willful, unforced actions of any other person. The important thing to take from this is that even if jokes actually caused sane people to take rape less seriously, those people are immeasurably more responsible for that decision than the joker. Immeasurably. Alleviating those people of that blame and placing it on the college footballer is morally reprehensible. If a sane person decides rape is less serious because of a joke, that person is morally reprehensible and blaming a college footballer and his joke for that person’s decision is really more than just morally reprehensible—it’s evil. He did not coerce them into believing anything, and we all know it’s wrong to blame people for actions other people took.

Dave Christensen has nothing to do with this; why are you bringing him into this?
You make a pretty solid argument here, except that I disagree with you that Christensen is responsible for the actions of his players. Other people are not responsible for the willful, unforced actions of other people.

Saying the player should be reprimanded, or calling Christensen’s salary into question, is too extreme for a single remark
I actually think your response is fairly well-measured in it’s severity: the joke and your “formal demand for an apology” are both just words that probably won’t elicit anything more than other words. All in all, that’s pretty even. The joke probably won’t do anything other than make you ask for an apology and, in turn, make people like me illustrate that asking for such an apology and a censorship of future jokes is morally reprehensible and logically unsound. Now, I know you disagree with me that this joke was so harmless. I know that. I get it. I really, really get it. In fact, I get it so much, that I think that your demand for an apology is totally legitimate but only when based solely on how offended you are. However, you should understand that you’re only logically and morally entitled to an apology from the footballer (and maybe whoever put the chloroform graphic up) for how he has offended you. You are not logically or morally entitled to demand an apology from anyone but the footballer and the production team. This is because people are not responsible for other people’s unforced actions. You are not logically or morally entitled to demand an apology for the degradation of general societal morality. This is because you have fabricated this result. You really have. I’ll say it again, because I know you will have a hard time accepting this: no one in the Laramie community thinks rape is less serious because of this footballer’s bad rape joke–no one. Asserting that we as a community have done or will do this pure fantasy. You are not logically or morally entitled to request the silence and suppression of anyone’s words, no matter their content. This is because censorship is almost categorically evil.

Spencer Pittman
UW Alum

P.S.: If you were thinking of attacking the “assertion” that no sane person would take rape less seriously because of a joke, please defer my definition of sanity that entails the ability to delineate jokes from advocation or persuasion. By definition, it would be impossible for a sane person to do this because they would stop being sane the moment they did. If you cite an example of people taking artifice seriously and committing crimes based upon that artifice, I will cite the fact that they were insane. Does it feel kind of cheap to have to resort to that? A little; but at least it’s reasonable. I don’t think sane people would take rape less seriously because of jokes, and I think most sane people think that too. Oh, also, if it’s not evident, when insane people make the mistake of taking artifice as persuasion, that’s immeasurably more attributable to their insanity than it is to the artifice. Why immeasurable? Because every person that was exposed to the artifice and did not commit a crime because of it is evidence that the artifice does not cause crime. And one last thing, don’t attempt to get out of this one because I gave you the freebie that my assertion and definition are cheap tricks. Why? Because the assertion and definition also reflect reality more accurately than yours.

  • Guest

    So, what about those people who have never seen the movie and therefore don’t get the reference? Sorry to say this, but either way you look at it, it is still offensive to some people.

  • Spencerpittman

    Victory! Thank you very much! You might have noticed I’ve been rather outspoken on this topic, and I appreciate the Branding Iron’s help in promoting the fair representation of multiple opinions. If it helps to make me seem less overzealous, the only reason I am so outspoken is that I fear UW’s administration will give Hiatt exactly what he wants (or worse–more) without considering how unjust that is to the college footballer, David Christensen, and whoever helped produced the clip. An apology is reasonable, and I do hope that they offer one, however anything else–anything that damages their careers or personal reputations–is disproportionate to their only crime: offending Mr. Hiatt and his compatriots. Thanks again!

  • Deke

    I heard the entire stadium laugh when the player told that joke.  If you couldn’t tell it was suppose to be funny, then you were the very, very small minority.  Anyways, who cares if it offended a small minority of people?  That fact that you are willing to censor someone for the sake of such a small group just highlights our nations absurd obsession with being politically correct.   Damn good job Spencer. 

  • http://flyinthefingwine.blogspot.com Mara

    This does not absolve the player of his comment.  You’re trying to misdirect us to other issues, which frankly, is insulting and has nothing to do with the issue at hand.  Comments like that are not acceptable.  Would you react the same way if he had told a racist joke in front of 20,000+ people?  Probably not.  So why this?

  • Spencerpittman

    Hello Mara,

    Here are a few responses to your comment (in order):

    I agree it does not.  I do not attest that the footballer is not responsible for his actions.  I only attest that Mr. Hiatt has misrepresented the footballers actions and their impact.

    Would like to elaborate how I am misdirecting us to other issues?  If I am, I agree that would be insulting.

    All comments are acceptable.

    Yes I would.  I would react the same way if the joke had cruelly ridiculed the marginalized groups into which *I* can be categorized, which, in fact, it did.

    I react to ensure no one receives unjust punishment for actions and impacts that are not actual.

  • Spencerpittman

    Well, let me amend that.  I don’t personally believe the joke was cruel.

  • Spencerpittman

    I agree the joke is offensive.  Fortunately, this does not affect the effectiveness of my arguments.

  • Guest

    Spencer- 10—Hiatt/Mara-0

  • Guest

    Seriously! Move on! You are beating a dead horse! We will not get an apology from Coach Christensen, the player or anyone else involved, so just drop it!

  • Spencerpittman

    Well, I would be ok with that outcome, but the possibility that the university might punish someone on Mr. Hiatt’s say-so is strong enough, I think, to warrant a letter or two. Ideally we’ll get an apology, but the day after, the footballer, the coach, and the clip-producers will wake up and continue their lives unaffected.

  • S_Lawson

    I’m resigning from the UW athletic department. I see this player everyday (and I wonder if he meant it as a joke, I know he did, but my brain won’t quit), I know of some of you, and it’s sickening to know you think it’s ok to laugh at a joke and tell a joke that is basically about how I was violated. I voiced this, I was told to get therapy. I have been in therapy for 5 YEARS! I went to the game and I have felt sick ever since. He may as well have said does this drink taste funny BECAUSE THAT’S WHAT HAPPENED TO ME! I don’t care it was in a movie. I. Don’t. Care. It’s sicker because IT WAS IN A MOVIE. It’s even worse that this was a pre-taped segment and someone, anyone could have put the brakes on but NOT ONE PERSON THOUGHT TO DO THAT. 

    I woke up in my rapist’s bed. He was my boyfriend, angry that I wouldn’t give it up. I went to the police, I went through the exam, and pressed charges. He wound up pleading guilty to simple assault, a misdemeanor because the prosecutor was worried that I wasn’t beaten up, there was a question of consent that it was he said she said. He drugged me, but his attorney said I was a prude who drugged herself to be less inhibited. He lives in Laramie now. He moved here to take a job. He used to joke about rape, actually. And he is a rapist. 
    I cannot believe the type of people attending this university. All of you justifying this can rot in hell. I’m already there, thank you. Words and jokes have power you assholes.

  • S_Lawson

    I’m resigning from the UW athletic department. I see this player everyday (and I wonder if he meant it as a joke, I know he did, but my brain won’t quit), I know of some of you, and it’s sickening to know you think it’s ok to laugh at a joke and tell a joke that is basically about how I was violated. I voiced this, I was told to get therapy. I have been in therapy for 5 YEARS! I went to the game and I have felt sick ever since. He may as well have said does this drink taste funny BECAUSE THAT’S WHAT HAPPENED TO ME! I don’t care it was in a movie. I. Don’t. Care. It’s sicker because IT WAS IN A MOVIE. It’s even worse that this was a pre-taped segment and someone, anyone could have put the brakes on but NOT ONE PERSON THOUGHT TO DO THAT. 

    I woke up in my rapist’s bed. He was my boyfriend, angry that I wouldn’t give it up. I went to the police, I went through the exam, and pressed charges. He wound up pleading guilty to simple assault, a misdemeanor because the prosecutor was worried that I wasn’t beaten up, there was a question of consent that it was he said she said. He drugged me, but his attorney said I was a prude who drugged herself to be less inhibited. He lives in Laramie now. He moved here to take a job. He used to joke about rape, actually. And he is a rapist. 
    I cannot believe the type of people attending this university. All of you justifying this can rot in hell. I’m already there, thank you. Words and jokes have power you assholes.

  • Geoff Hiatt

    I’m very sorry to hear that.  You are not the person who should have to upend your life over this.  The people responsible for it should be doing something, anything to correct their mistake.

    I wish you all the best!

  • Spencerpittman

    Like Mr.  Hiatt, I offer my deepest, most sincere sympathy.  Though you may choose to disbelieve me, I know first hand the kind of pain you’ve experienced.  I am truly apologetic if my words and arguments here have hurt you in any way.  I admire and am even envious of the courage you’ve shown by standing up for yourself legally and here in the public forum.  I hope you can try to understand what I, as a fellow victim, am trying to accomplish with my arguments.  I know the horror and inner disgust of our situation, but my other convictions oblige me to fight not only for our own rights but also for those of our opponents and even our oppressors.  For us to call for the censorship of anyone trivializes the validity of our own testaments by hypocrisy.

    I encourage you to use your resignation for much more than personal reasons.  Use it in protest.  Show us as a community that words, actions, and even negligence do have the power to cause deep pain and anguish, but also change.  Your resignation has true potential to cause our community to take more seriously the tragedy of all kinds of rape, be it violent, drug-enabled, psychological or statutory.  I know it will take great personal strength to even consider this as an option, but that is clearly a trait you possess in spades.

    It would be an honor to be affiliated with you in any way, and I would genuinely prefer that it be as compatriots rather than adversaries.  I know you have suffered great injustice, but I beg you to not reciprocate.  Promote our cause in an ethical and forthright manner.  Lend our movement legitimacy by raising awareness without malice or iniquity. 

    On Mr. Hiatt’s behalf, I apologize.  His methods have done us a great disservice.  We can only hope to prevent any actual damage he might cause.  No matter how good his intentions, if his rash campaign continues as it has, he will have hurt our mission in a very real way.

    Please, I veraciously beg you, do not repeat his mistakes.

  • Sethellsworth

    This headline is a horrendous piece of copy editing.  It should be “criticism of” rather than “criticism on.” It should also probably be “borders on” rather than just “borders.” Additionally, if this headline was actually accurate (see below), “Cowboys” should be possessive (that means with an apostrophe). Since only one person was saying this it should read “UW Cowboy’s pick up lines”. Also, the criticism was in response to one pick up line, so it should not be in the plural form. And the “UW Cowboys” should probably be more descriptive (football player perhaps?).

  • Mort253

    It’s not the leaders in our society, such as those of you contributing to this thread, whose opinions and beliefs will be ultimately affected by desensitizing jokes such as this. You may be angry, but your own resolve and personal stance will never falter. Let’s not ask how such material will affect the posters in this room. Instead, perhaps the most important question not asked is how will this affect the population who thinks it is okay, as long as you don’t get caught?

    What about the followers? What about the people that weren’t afforded the opportunities for a higher education or life experiences we’ve all had that teaches valuable critical thinking skills? What about the young and impressionable or the weak-minded?  What about the amoral people in our society who are on the fence?  Is it possible that these followers are subtly and unconsciously conditioned to feel a certain way about certain topics, whether it be war, assault, drug use, consumer debt, gun ownership, or any number of controversial issues that plague our culture and either hold us back as a society by stealing either our safety or our freedom?How many people out there in our country have never taken the time to think deeply about this topic and take a firm stance on the right side of the fence? How many just chuckled at the joke, immediately forgetting about the issue and burying it in the subconscious?With freedom comes personal responsibility. This includes the responsibility to protect those freedoms and find ways to ensure safety without trading those freedoms for it. Unfortunately, there isn’t an easy solution to this problem. It’s important that all of the leaders contributing to this thread continue to do what they’re doing by educating others, both on the topic of how a series of seemingly innocent jokes can affect a culture’s attitudes toward a topic, as well as standing up in defense of our first amendment and our liberties as a free society.Issues like these have both infringed on our rights guaranteed by the constitution as well as affected the behavior and beliefs of the masses. Only through unity and education can we protect both our safety, as well as our liberty.